Safety In Online Dating

The question I get asked the most is “Is online dating safe?” The truth is, like everything else, online dating is as safe as you make it.

We all have choices we make daily that protect our safety– some of us wear seat belts, some do not. Some drink the coffee before it cools, some wait until it won’t burn them. Some people look both ways before they cross, and some jay walk. Your safety is only controlled by you, and that applies to online personals as much as it does anything else in your day-to-day life.

Common sense plays a big part in internet dating. If something doesn’t feel right when you’re talking to someone, then you’re probably right. Dating websites have made wonderful advances with their security over the last few years, and with one click of your mouse, you can block the person creeping you out from seeing your profile entirely.

When you’re ready to meet yourinternet friend, make it a public place. You might feel most comfortable in your own home, but being alone when meeting an internet date for the first time can be both intimidating and can add extra pressure. There’s safety in numbers, and you should have that kind of support when meeting someone. This will also protect you after the date is done. If the date doesn’t go well, then you can take comfort in knowing he doesn’t know where you live.

We have all heard stories of what happens when people let their guard down online, so look out for red flags and don’t let someone talk you into a situation you don’t feel comfortable with. As long as you stay smart, you’ll stay safe.