Music To Soothe The Not So Savage Beast

All the work has been done. The online dating site, the chatting, the phone calls, the first meeting and the successful subsequent dates. Now it’s time for the first sexual encounter with the lady, and it’s time to set the scene.

First of all, get things neat and clean. Hire a cleaning service if necessary, but make sure the place is clean. Women will notice things that most men will never see, so hiring someone may not be a bad idea. Make sure there are clean sheets and pillows on the bed, and put the porn away. When she arrives, have the lights down low, light candles for ambiance and have some good wine breathing. Having roses on a table and maybe some great chocolates is a great idea. The scent of roses is supposed to be an aphrodisiac for most women, and so is chocolate.

The only thing left to do is to pick the music. Choosing the right music to add to the mood is very important and can be tricky. It shouldn’t be distracting or a turn off, but what one person finds sexy may not be the same as what another person finds sexy.

Knowing the person the scene is set for will help quite a bit. If she hates country music then obviously country music isn’t going to set the right mood. Gangsta rap that is very misogynistic is offensive to a lot of women. Try to take note of what your lady likes to dance to, because that is quite often an indicator of what gets her hips moving and her juices flowing. Watch her in the car and take note of what music gets her “chair dancing”. The music that gets her hips gyrating in a sexual manner is probably a great place to start. It’s a great idea to start collecting the songs that the lady responds to, and when the time comes the music will be already be available.