What am I supposed to say in the first message I send to someone? that question is one of the most common I get in e-mails I get from people new to the internet dating world. It’s hard to respond to online personals when you simply don’t know what to say. The first message is important ... Read On
Why is someone telling me they are DDF? What is someone asking when they say ‘FWB?’? What is a SWF? I get questions like this all the time. If you’re reading messages that seem like they’re written in a different language and are missing a lot of vowels, you’re not alo... Read On
Finally getting that first date through online personals is nerve-racking on its own, but then you have the challenge of actually going on the first date. What if the chemistry you have online doesn’t translate well to the real world? What do you do if there’s an awkward silence? Does s... Read On
One of the questions I’m asked most by both men and women is “What do I put in my online personal ads?” When it comes down to it you can put whatever you want in the ad, but there are a few basic guidelines that I find are most effective. You should keep in mind that what you’... Read On
There’s a lot of people posting adult personals who are looking for something simple like a quick hookup or an internet fuck. But how do you know what to include in your ad? Most dating websites only give you tips on how to write your average profile, but finding someone for sex through a pass... Read On
Eggs and bacon. In online personals, we’re constantly seeking new ways to impress our online dates, new places to take them, new experiences to wow them with – and why not a breakfast date? I want to go on a breakfast date. Even just with myself. Because breakfast is delicious. Pros: 1. ... Read On
Dear women: sometimes you need to make the first move. Come on, now, seriously, are you telling me you are a confident, intelligent feminist, yet you can’t even hit on a man? That’s just whack. What’s the worse that can happen? He rejects you? And then what? Men have such a sway ov... Read On
This round of online personals advice is for the women, because I know you’re out there, and I know you’re reading. And guys, if you’re reading this and you do find that special someone through your online dating site soon, you should get her to read this. The following is a list... Read On
Here’s a study that’s pretty important to the online personals world – relationships in early adulthood can reveal the first indications of depression, particularly in young women. A study conducted by researchers at the University of Maine has found that a young woman or man who &... Read On
Why is CNN still considered a real news station? It is, at the very most, ‘news entertainment’ or ‘entertainment news’ or ‘porn stars pretending to be news anchors reporting porn in the guise of news,’ Do we all agree? A recent article over at CNN’s website ... Read On