There’s a visible pattern with 20-something males in the online dating world: If they’re not looking for a one night stand, then they’re looking for a cougar. Cougars have been a growing trend for the past 13 years when the movie American Pie introduced us to a world-changing word:... Read On
It’s common for people in relationships to want to see what else is out there for them. The world isn’t filled with cheaters, but it is filled with curious people who want to make sure they’re doing the right thing. If you’ve been with the same person for 8 Â years, how do yo... Read On
When you’re searching for your match, it’s easy to get a little carried way when you start sharing information about yourself. It’s natural to want to know everything about them, and to want to share everything in return, but you have to remember that this is someone you don’... Read On
My friend told me yesterday that my e-mails always seem hostile. I’m not trying to do that! How do I know if I come across like that when I’m dating online? Well my friend, that could pose as a problem. It’s hard to get tone across on the internet since people can perceive words on... Read On
What can you do to attract more people to your profile? This question has been asked a million times, and can have a million different answers. When writing your online personals, there’s many things you can do to attract more people to your page. Have an eye-catching profile picture, present ... Read On
How do I know if he’s as into this as I am? If you have to ask, the harsh truth is that he’s probably not. It’s natural for people to feel insecure when dating, let alone dating online when the other party isn’t around so you can assess their body language, but people are bor... Read On
When people are filling out adult personals, they usually have a few questions they want answered from the people responding. Where they’re from, what they do, why they’re looking for love online, the works. What they’re NOT looking for is to get a novel from someone. Ever wonder w... Read On
How do I know if the people I’m attracting online are a good fit for me? This question is the key reason honesty in online personals is crucial. When you’re trying to find a date online, it’s difficult to dig through the bad ones to find the good when you don’t exactly who is... Read On
Why is someone telling me they are DDF? What is someone asking when they say ‘FWB?’? What is a SWF? I get questions like this all the time. If you’re reading messages that seem like they’re written in a different language and are missing a lot of vowels, you’re not alo... Read On
Finally getting that first date through online personals is nerve-racking on its own, but then you have the challenge of actually going on the first date. What if the chemistry you have online doesn’t translate well to the real world? What do you do if there’s an awkward silence? Does s... Read On