Almost everyone in the world has the same question after a break up: “Why?” When you have a ton of small problems, how do you clear the smoke enough to pinpoint the main reason for the breakup? Whether you’ve gone on one date, you were married, or you married someone you thought was your match, breakups get sticky and confusing, and you often don’t have a chance to get over... Read On
I feel like every message I write to people I’m interested online has been written before. What can I do to make my messages unique? Sandra, 32, Oakville Well Sandra, if you’re looking to  get your message noticed, it’s not so much the uniqueness of the content as it is how engaging what you’re saying is coming across. What do we mean by that? Let’s break it down: I... Read On
When people reply to text messages, they often use text message language. Things like ‘ur’ instead of ‘your’ and ’2nite’ instead of ‘tonight’ may save you time, but what can they do to your dating life? Although most people think that vocabulary won’t make much of a difference when messaging someone, it actually can prevent people not only from... Read On
We get a lot of questions from people who are interested in going on an Read On
Sometimes you find yourself looking so hard at the big picture that you overlook the smaller ones. The skin and bones unspoken rules of online personals haven’t changed much since the creation of dating sites. In case you’re one of the many who are having a hard time seeing the trees through the forest, we thought we’d take a look at the online dating rules of thumb! Stick to one... Read On
I want to try online dating, but I feel that it’s all girls using them, and I’m looking for a guy. What’s the guy to girl ratio? Girl Seeking Guy A lot of users have the misconception that there’s way more of one sex than the other, but the facts show that it’s actually a pretty even race! In North America, the average amount of women looking for men online is only la... Read On
When you first sign up for online dating sites, chances are you spend a lot of effort into building your profile. After all, that is the first thing people see regarding you. You can’t walk up to someone online and introduce yourself, you have to let them read the information you provide, and they judge for themselves whether or not they’re interested enough to message you. But after y... Read On
A new study came out today outlining the role music can play in your online dating life, and surprisingly enough it has a lot of influence! Mental Health experts at Cambridge University have been doing research for the past few years, tracking how your mental state changes when you listen to different genres of music while going through the dating process. The results showed with a great margin th... Read On
We get a lot of questions from people regarding what they should and should’t be doing online. “He asked me to Skype, but I don’t really want to.” “She’s asking to start sexting. I’m really not comfortable with that…” “He wants to meet after only talking online once!” So how do you deal with these difficult situations? The key to an... Read On
There are so many new dating websites out there, I don’t know which one to use. Have any suggestions on how I can pick? Heather Well Heather, there are many important factors that should go into picking the right online dating site for you. First, make the decision on what you are looking for. A long term relationship? A short fling? Friends to simply go and get a coffee with every now and t... Read On