Biggest Break Up Reasons
Everyone tends to think that their relationship is special and has significant meaning that’s unique and original, which it usually is, but the break up is a different story. People are so concentrated on the break up itself that they usually don’t stop to understand why the break up took place. It’s not the love left, because most of the time people leave a relationship being very much in love. It’s other factors that add to the stress of the couple that acts as a breaking point.
Before you start your search for new online personals to fill the void of love lost, you should take a minute to review why most couples break up, so you can avoid the problems before they start. Here are the most common reasons why couples of any length break up.
He Feels Like You’re His Ball And Chain. A lot of guys start to feel the pressure when their buddies ask whether they’re ready to pop the question or not. And a lot of guys freak over this. When the start seeing you as something other people find to be necessary part of his life, the male ego kicks in and wants to let everyone know that he can still make it on his own. To avoid this, simply remind him that you’re his equal, not his better half. Suggest that he spend time with his friends when he gets a day off and avoid being clingy. This way when people ask the question, he’ll think of it with positive thoughts, not negative ones.
There’s A New Woman In The Picture. When a new woman comes into his life, whether it be a new friend, co-worker, dentist, whatever, he gets a taste of what he’s been missing. Different personality traits stimulate different things in men, and when they see something in someone that their partner doesn’t have, it starts them to thinking what life would be like if they were with someone who did have it. The best way to avoid this is simply to have open communication with your partner. Let him be comfortable enough to tell you when he starts feeling this way, so you can work towards fixing the problem together, instead of having him deal with his feelings on his own.
You’ve Finally Realized He’s Not Mr. Perfect. He chews with his mouth open. He breaths far too loud. He doesn’t even like your favorite band! Once you realize he’s not the man of your dreams, you’ll probably start to have those nagging feelings that you can do better. If that happens, stop and thing about if you actually want better. After all, you’re in love with the person, not his habits, right? 9 times out of 10, people realize after the break up that the little issues that got on their nerves weren’t that bad to begin with. Instead of concentrating on the bad, think about all the good! Every time he does something that bothers you, think about two things that you love about him. The power of positive thinking!
There’s Money Issues. Money is a cause of personal stress to everyone. When he sees that you’ve bought another new pair of shoes, or you see that he’s bought a new seat cover for his car, it can cause little fights that quickly turn into BIG fights. If this person is your match, you’re dating them for who they are, not their bank account, so try to minimize conversations about money, and make a point to never talk about it when you’re angry.
You’ve Started To Love Him Like A Brother. You can love someone that you see as a friend, but not want to sleep with them. this happens a lot with women, because they lose the spark. Having a weekly date and putting serious effort into a healthy sex life will keep you from seeing him as a platonic friend.
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