5 Things Women Should Tell Their Men
This round of online personals advice is for the women, because I know you’re out there, and I know you’re reading. And guys, if you’re reading this and you do find that special someone through your online dating site soon, you should get her to read this.
The following is a list of the five things women need to tell their men. Now.
1. Awesome?
Men, like women, can be insecure creatures. Unfortunately, we often express this insecurity in the stupidest of ways. We tend to take our insecurity and scatter it all over other people. So, if you could just please indulge us once in a while and remind us you think we are cool and sexy and smart, that would be awesome.
2. Yes!!!! Yessss!!!!! YESSSS!!!!!!
We do need direction in the bedroom, and the best direction you could possibly give us is the kind that lets us know plainly and clearly what we are doing right, and how we can improve on it. So, ‘yes, THAT feels good,’ or ‘don’t stop doing it just like that’ or ‘slower, slower,’ is going to make us feel so much better. Making you feel good turns us on, and makes us feel sexy and secure and enthusiastic about pleasing you.
3. When you spend time with your ex, I get insane
Being friends with an ex is possible. I’m friends with quite a few exes. Some of my partners seem to not mind it, while others are crazy jealous. Both make sense to me – it depends on past experiences (being cheated on, etc). But, if you are feeling mad jealous, you’ve got to tell your man. Don’t try to *make* him stop seeing her, that would be cruel and possessive and stupid, simply let him know your insecurities so he can explain why you shouldn’t feel that way.
4. Watching you play a video game is not a date
Yeah, if he’s asking you to hang out and do something absurdly boring with him, you’ve got to just be straight up and tell him he’s an idiot. It’s possible that in his childish joy over the activity the idea that you might not enjoy watching him kill aliens just hasn’t entered his mind.
5. Pick Up Your Shit
If you man is leaving his socks on the bathroom floor and towels on your chair and it’s making you insane, just tell him he’s got to man up and clean. It’s really not that hard to do.